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Decoding Dating, Polyamory, and Co-parenting in the 21st Century

November 27, 2023 Elliott Carterr, BossLife, SP & Letty, @Mar_bankzzz & Fly & Faded Podcast Season 1 Episode 8
Decoding Dating, Polyamory, and Co-parenting in the 21st Century
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Decoding Dating, Polyamory, and Co-parenting in the 21st Century
Nov 27, 2023 Season 1 Episode 8
Elliott Carterr, BossLife, SP & Letty, @Mar_bankzzz & Fly & Faded Podcast

Hey, you! Get ready to be swept off your feet as we plunge headfirst into rip-roaring discussions on controversial subjects. We're talking about the Josh Giddey scandal, dating with kids, polyamory and threesomes, gender roles and 50-50 relationships. That's right, we're going all in, unfiltered and uncensored. Alongside our amazing guests, Mara Bankzzz and Fly & Faded Podcast, we unpack the complexities of modern relationships while exploring the importance of accountability, trust, and communication. Is your curiosity piqued yet?

Throughout the conversation, we navigate the labyrinth of human connections, from the dynamics of polyamory to the nuances of co-parenting. We'll be airing our personal boundaries, preferences, and experiences on sharing a partner, equal opportunities for women, and managing a financially struggling partner. You'll get a front-row seat to our candid reflections on the balance of power and responsibility in relationships. We've also got, SP, sharing her personal experiences with co-parenting and it's challenges. And if you think we're done, we've got more. 

Hang on till the end because we're taking a deep dive into the impact of social media on relationships. You'll hear our guests' take on boundaries, trust, and the virtual world's influence on our real-life partnerships. We'll be wrapping up by casting our eyes on current events from the Spanish-speaking community, discussing everything from floods in Santo Domingo to positive developments in Puerto Rico. Hang tight, this isn't just a conversation, it's a thrilling journey through the reality of relationships in the modern world. Don't miss the ride!

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Hey, you! Get ready to be swept off your feet as we plunge headfirst into rip-roaring discussions on controversial subjects. We're talking about the Josh Giddey scandal, dating with kids, polyamory and threesomes, gender roles and 50-50 relationships. That's right, we're going all in, unfiltered and uncensored. Alongside our amazing guests, Mara Bankzzz and Fly & Faded Podcast, we unpack the complexities of modern relationships while exploring the importance of accountability, trust, and communication. Is your curiosity piqued yet?

Throughout the conversation, we navigate the labyrinth of human connections, from the dynamics of polyamory to the nuances of co-parenting. We'll be airing our personal boundaries, preferences, and experiences on sharing a partner, equal opportunities for women, and managing a financially struggling partner. You'll get a front-row seat to our candid reflections on the balance of power and responsibility in relationships. We've also got, SP, sharing her personal experiences with co-parenting and it's challenges. And if you think we're done, we've got more. 

Hang on till the end because we're taking a deep dive into the impact of social media on relationships. You'll hear our guests' take on boundaries, trust, and the virtual world's influence on our real-life partnerships. We'll be wrapping up by casting our eyes on current events from the Spanish-speaking community, discussing everything from floods in Santo Domingo to positive developments in Puerto Rico. Hang tight, this isn't just a conversation, it's a thrilling journey through the reality of relationships in the modern world. Don't miss the ride!

Support the Show.

Follow our IG & Twitter for live updates @LFTGRadio

Speaker 1:

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Speaker 5:

Check off the list I put in work.

Speaker 1:

Oh.

Speaker 6:

Good evening, godspeed. It's your boy, elliot Carter, reporting live from the motherfucking gutter. I Got two of my homegirls here with me. They gonna introduce they so say that Instagram's and give y'all a run around real quick.

Speaker 7:

What happens to girl Mara Binks at MAR underscore Binks on every app to talk Instagram. I'm? Yes, you could find me at. Yes, you about on Instagram. Yes, himabett.

Speaker 6:

That's what's up. All right Jumping into things. We gonna start off with Jeff Giddy. Pretty much, he uh he was still cleared to play. Okay, see, said that they're looking into, they're investigating the claims which are pretty solid claims by a 15 year old girl. She posted pictures Saying she just fucked Josh Giddy and she has a whole bunch of videos and just a incriminating evidence. So the story is that he met her in the club and that's how the Misconception of age comes about. So how do you feel about that, mara?

Speaker 7:

Okay, pause. So why is it 15 year old girl in the club? Anyways, first and foremost, okay, I heard that she was. That was her playing the whole time. So she's crazy for that one and him. On the other hand, he probably didn't know from the jump jump because she was in the club and I don't know how old he is. But I do believe he should be suspended or whatever the case may be. But at the end of the day she shouldn't have been acted grown, she was, I think, wrong. So that's both side table sick, in my opinion. So I have pretty.

Speaker 6:

I have stronger feelings than that. How do you feel I?

Speaker 7:

Feel like anybody who sexually attracts us a 15-year-old should be double period.

Speaker 6:

Okay, I'm more. I'm more on that side. I feel like there should be some type of Consequential action involved. I don't think he should be Free playing basketball right now. I have a problem with that, that's just. Let's say that was a boogie just picking a random name and a boogie had a show three, four days later From a 15-year-old black girl or 15 year old white girl Saying that they had sex. You think a buggy still performing.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, people still gonna mess with him, regardless. I mean yeah.

Speaker 6:

He's gonna get arrested, gonna definitely.

Speaker 7:

So they should treat the same basketball player the same way they treat that's. That's anybody else for, that's my point exactly for a fact.

Speaker 6:

That's my point exactly. If that was fucking Kai Sonata or black man with dreads, you know I'm saying like they're gonna Execute them to the maximum extent of the law, to the fullest extent of the law. That's a fact. So Are y'all in relationships? Yeah, y'all. Both single, y'all both got men. Was supposed to.

Speaker 7:

I'm taking. I got a boyfriend.

Speaker 6:

How long have you been?

Speaker 7:

together.

Speaker 6:

We went together like eight months Solid, yeah, real solid lot then so Is there a Ups and downs in your relationship, or y'all still riding out the highs from the from the early?

Speaker 7:

on the CS ups and downs in Whatever relationship you get into. But if you really want to make it work for you, gotta put in the effort on both ends. And that's what we both do. So we ain't tripping. We know we got Stuff to deal with. You know we got times when it's up, times when it down, but we solid.

Speaker 6:

Okay. Does trust ever play a factor in any of the Any of the decisions that you make, like Coming on this podcast? Was that something that you have to speak to him about, so something that you have to get his approval for? Is that something that goes on in y'all relationship?

Speaker 7:

I had to tell him. But like my boyfriend supports everything I do, anything I do, so I already. I pitched idea to him. He was cool about it. He brought me here, I should be so yeah that's what's up.

Speaker 6:

I'm glad to see he was able to pull up and there was no issues anything like that, because you know, dealing with the podcast and stuff like that, I deal with a lot of girls that have boyfriends that have problems. So there was this girl that was supposed to be here prior to you sitting in your seat. How boyfriend actually put hands on her for that, wow.

Speaker 7:

That's crazy. I would tell her to leave the relationship.

Speaker 6:

That's not yeah, that was something I definitely suggested, but that's not cool for a referral. Yeah, so that's nothing. Nothing that you deal with, hell, no.

Speaker 7:

You should be able to make your own decisions, and it's nothing like that going on over here for show, for show, like you just really got a now, if there was something like that going on oh we wouldn't be here.

Speaker 6:

Okay.

Speaker 7:

Well, he wouldn't be here. He's here, so that's what you saying. I don't play that He'll. He'll even play that. So yeah, okay out the question.

Speaker 6:

That's what's up, so you have any events coming up. I know you's telling me you got something planned in Atlanta.

Speaker 7:

Yes, so I actually got something playing that Elena for my artist. His name is little Swizzy, was his IG Little Swizzy at little, so you can actually Google him. Okay, the first name that come up.

Speaker 6:

Okay, that's what's up. So what's going on with?

Speaker 7:

my artist. He got he we had a great year, to be honest, a great great year lots of visuals. He's actually shooting a visual today for his song different. We got a show coming up in Atlanta January 20th. We're gonna be out there, got a couple songs for performance artist showcase. I have more on my Instagram. At Marbank. I Got an event coming up for New Year's as well, right near New Year's public event. It's gonna be in the New Haven area, probably in the venues to be announced right. Yes, sir, they've been used to being out. We still talking about it, but you know it's gonna be a movie. It's always a movie. Okay, doing it with DJ Wild and DJ Breezy.

Speaker 6:

Shout out DJ Wild and DJ Breezy, yes sir. Also shout out to the Flying Faded podcast. Yes sir, we got yes she here. She's, she's a host. She hold that podcast down. So we doing some podcast collaborations. You can look forward to seeing more work with yes she in the future. More work with Mara too.

Speaker 7:

Yes, sir, oh, and it's a party on December, on December 9th, definitely a part of December 9th. Where's that? I got y'all right now.

Speaker 6:

Okay, flyer for y'all. Give me one second. Yeah, we're gonna post the flyer on the LFTG radio page so Y'all can just look out for that there. December 9th.

Speaker 7:

All right. So it's called pretty girls into. It's called messy pretty girls into Kila. It's gonna be December 9th. 18th party 21 to drink is gonna be at vibes on orange in New Haven, connecticut. To make sure y'all be there, I'm gonna send the flyer out. You know it's gonna get on the page tickets or purchase.

Speaker 7:

You can purchase tickets. I'm gonna tell. I'm gonna put the link when I posted myself. If you follow me on Instagram, you can find it there. I'm also share that link before I leave this podcast to so and it'll be posted on this page too.

Speaker 6:

So y'all get the link. Y'all sure y'all tune in, just just follow the pages and y'all see what's going on. Party every time, packed out every time, and you mentioned you had some something. Some will go baskets too, right?

Speaker 7:

Yes, I may give baskets. I'm a jack of all trades. I make gift baskets, custom-made gift baskets. My page for that is go underscore baskets Tommy Hilfiger, polo, any, any brand. You need Any brain.

Speaker 6:

That's what's up. So I went to Wooden tap today, that's in Southton. I tagged the page on Instagram. I had a Philly cheesesteak egg roll. It was all right. It wasn't really anything special. The portion was it was small, it was like Two egg rolls and they just cut them up and made them look very beautiful. So for presentation, I give them an eight. For a portion, I give them a five because it was just a small portion. Affordability I spent like 24 dollars, I think, on that Something around there, but it was quite expensive just for two egg rolls. So affordability is six. Service provided that excellent service. So I'm gonna give them a nine for service and I'm gonna give them a seven for quality, which gives them an overall grade of seven. So it's not too bad. Yeah, I could check out wooden tap. I've had better options. But, um, yeah, if there's no weight or anything, then yeah, what in tap seems like a good option, then I wouldn't even do that.

Speaker 7:

He said 25 for two egg rolls. I'm going to the Chinese people down the street and I'm grabbing me two shrimp egg rolls. That's it.

Speaker 6:

Well, I mean, it was Philly cheesesteak.

Speaker 7:

I mean you could make that at home for like $10. Yeah, you could cook. I made Philly cheesesteak egg rolls before buffalo chicken egg rolls if you, if you in the egg roll game.

Speaker 6:

So rolls at Sobo, definitely the best fire, the best egg rolls out there fire. Um, it's a yams and mac and cheese inside of egg roll, black owned business in Hartford Florida. Not what this real avenues, so I could check out. Check out. So bowls. If you looking for good egg rolls, they have some soul egg rolls there fire, move it along.

Speaker 7:

Kids. Do I have kids?

Speaker 6:

yeah, no, oh, absolutely not Is that something that you want in the future, in the future.

Speaker 7:

Yes, but I want to be, if I need, to least able For my kids.

Speaker 6:

So where do you, where do you see yourself having kids in your future?

Speaker 7:

Um, I want to say three to five years. I got my shit together. Right now, I'm gonna have my shit together more and more each year. Honestly, when it comes, I know I'll be ready for it.

Speaker 6:

And do you feel that your partner that you're with now is eligible? He's an eligible partner for fatherhood. Of course Does he have kids. Hell, no, would you be able to deal? With him if he had kids.

Speaker 7:

Um, I don't know, that's a wild topic.

Speaker 6:

So if we met before, yeah, if you met and he had kids.

Speaker 7:

He already had kids and he told me about it in the beat. The baby mom was not in the picture at all, like just a mom, church or anything. We had our own type of conversations and relationship cool to a certain extent. But if the baby mom is involved usually how baby mom's be involved that's pretty much not happening. I'm not having that.

Speaker 6:

What if the baby mom's not involved but he pays child support?

Speaker 7:

What do you mean by that? Like, if he has the kid, no, he doesn't have the kid, he doesn't have the kid.

Speaker 6:

He's not an active father. He's not an active.

Speaker 7:

Oh, I'm not being with no niggas. That's the active father. He's not an active father because of distance.

Speaker 4:

Well, I'm sorry.

Speaker 6:

You're the curse. I don't give a fuck, yeah, so he's not an active.

Speaker 7:

He would be an active father. He's not an active father because of distance.

Speaker 6:

So let's say, his daughter lives in California, so that's why he's not an active father. He speaks to his daughter, he has FaceTime conversations with her daughter, but is he physically present? No, so he provides financially. Would you be able to support that Um?

Speaker 7:

yeah, it just depends on the circumstances, to be honest, how you feel, yesha.

Speaker 6:

How about what? How about that? Would you be able to deal with? A niggas with kids?

Speaker 7:

I definitely like this you have some type to go in front.

Speaker 6:

I'm the curse. Yesha, you was telling me why you can't deal with a niggas, with kids, on a serious level, and I was telling you why you can.

Speaker 7:

Why, oh shit, why can't I Let me hear the pros before?

Speaker 6:

I tell you the cons. Now let me. I got to my rebuttal has to be based off your cons.

Speaker 7:

Okay, my cons, let me have my. I should have my, for sure, this time.

Speaker 6:

But my cons. I'm arguing from my standpoint.

Speaker 7:

You got kids.

Speaker 6:

I have a daughter.

Speaker 7:

Okay, so let me tell you how I feel, and the gentleman that I dealt with that had kids I cared about a lot. I really did.

Speaker 4:

Okay.

Speaker 7:

I did care for him, but having a relationship where you live with him or I was to have kids for him. I wasn't too keen on him just because I knew I wouldn't be the best that I could be. And I said that because he got previous big moms, not one, not two. I won't put all his business out there, but he had previous big moms and I could. I didn't see myself getting along with them. I'm not saying I want to go beat the hoes up, but like having things given together and having all of our kids play together like why do you want to have Thanksgiving with any of his kids' mothers?

Speaker 6:

I don't, but I would have to. I would be fucked up to keep his kid away from them because of me, yeah, so no girl that I've ever dealt with has ever had Thanksgiving with my baby mother.

Speaker 7:

Well, that was just an example, because Thanksgiving is past, I mean anything.

Speaker 6:

There's barely any type of interaction with any female that I'm dealing with and my baby mother, but if they, had kids.

Speaker 4:

I wouldn't even deal with that, though, if the female had kids too that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 7:

If it's serious relationship meaning possibility of having kids. Yeah, I'm saying I wouldn't want to have a serious relationship because if I would have had a kid I wouldn't be the best that I could be for the children. The children gotta get along, get along.

Speaker 6:

Okay, okay, see, that's reasonable. That's my reason. That's reasonable, Like if that was in the case.

Speaker 7:

I would have had a kid for him, I would have moved in with him, I would have took it to 10 mile yard, but I just knew that I couldn't be the best, because I'm not that type of bitch. I can't. I don't know how other people raise their kids. I don't know, like you find me, it's a lot of factors too. Kids change a relationship. I wouldn't even deal with that, though because it's like.

Speaker 7:

I don't want a guy who's gonna not involve me in the DM, not involve me too much, but like if we're taking this to a serious level. I don't want no beef between the baby mama and me. The baby mama would have had to be mature enough for us to have a conversation or two Like mature enough.

Speaker 6:

Now let's say she was, because my BM is definitely mature enough. First things first. My BM don't give a fuck about me, so she's not gonna play.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, I stopped watching my live and go do the yeah. Stream the Twitch. Stream the Twitch.

Speaker 1:

I'm only on this for 10 minutes.

Speaker 7:

Don't give a fuck about me.

Speaker 6:

She has no interest in what I'm doing. If I have a million bitches shaking ass on my Instagram, that's something that she don't care about. You know, if I'm laid up with another bitch, she don't care, Like if I have, which I don't do. But let's say I had another bitch around my daughter, she wouldn't really care.

Speaker 6:

Yeah like, yeah, she's not active in my social life. The only thing, the only type of relationship we have. We talk about my daughter, like, oh, you're coming to pick her up on this day and you're gonna drop her off this day. Those are the only type of conversations we have. So what I wanna know is yes, she, yeah. How would she affect you if she has? If we have that type of relationship, how would she affect me, how would she affect you if we have a relationship that's based solely on my child and we don't speak?

Speaker 7:

outside of that. I mean I could have a good relationship. We could definitely have a good relationship, yeah, that would be something. But in my head the future would never be like I'm never gonna lie to you, so I will never be 100% there. Like, yeah, I can see the future with him because I know in my heart I always wanna be the first day. Yeah, I do too.

Speaker 5:

That's another thing. That's another thing.

Speaker 7:

I'm not no second bitch like for real.

Speaker 5:

I'm not that first kid, I'm not playing.

Speaker 6:

I know that.

Speaker 7:

I do. I personally wanna be the first baby, Okay so now I have a question for you Now I have a better question for you.

Speaker 6:

You wanna be the first baby mom. Now let's see how bad. You wanna be the first baby mom.

Speaker 7:

How bad.

Speaker 6:

If you had a man that was extremely financial secure, let's call him a millionaire multiple houses, multiple cars. He's in the industry, he's well known, he's lit. He has six kids. He wants you to have his seventh child. Is that something that you would be willing to sacrifice?

Speaker 7:

Absolutely not. I don't give a fuck how much money you put. Wait.

Speaker 1:

I forgot about that.

Speaker 7:

That money don't have nothing to do with me, like I give my own money.

Speaker 6:

You could be, as financially stable as you wanna be.

Speaker 7:

If I was 30 years old, yeah, I would have his seventh kid, how old are you? I'm 23.

Speaker 6:

So let's say, this happened. Next year I will not have his kid.

Speaker 7:

That means I could be single and a single mother by 26.

Speaker 6:

But you'll be taken care of.

Speaker 7:

With what child support? That's a fucked up plan.

Speaker 6:

That's a plan that a lot of bitches is living with right now.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, that's not cool.

Speaker 6:

I don't like to y'all bitches.

Speaker 7:

that's a fucked up plan. That's a fucked up plan. Well, I'm not saying that you can't live and have a comfortable life, but I want the best for you. Bitches listening, I want the best for y'all and that's a fucked up first plan. That could be second or third or fourth, but that's a fucked up first plan. Y'all should really aim for somebody who love y'all, ain't care for y'all. I wanna be there for y'all child. I'm not saying somebody with more kids can't do that, but just aim for the stars, baby girl.

Speaker 6:

That's good, nice, solid, sound advice. See y'all.

Speaker 7:

The first time I ever heard that. What Did I get? Solid sound.

Speaker 6:

That was definitely good advice. That was definitely good advice you know, that's Leo's.

Speaker 7:

We be doing it. You were Leo too. Yup, big Leo.

Speaker 6:

I don't really like Leo's.

Speaker 7:

I don't care we don't give a fuck. That's the thing I like about Leo's like we really don't care, Like we are very entitled.

Speaker 6:

A lot of people don't like us, but that's the thing. We don't care, Because y'all have a strong personality we do real strong.

Speaker 7:

I know a lot of people would like to say like they can only deal with a Leo, like one Leo at a time for one day. They can't deal with two of us at the same time. Like I have another Leo friend and like me and her go out at some times, or me and her go out at some times too good, it's not. We don't ever try to cut each other's throats off. It'd be quick to a little minute.

Speaker 4:

Who's got?

Speaker 7:

Leo friend Kayla, we both Leo's, we'd be going at it.

Speaker 5:

But, that's my girl. When you see when.

Speaker 7:

Leo's get together, we know when. To you know, make a nice accord, because we've seen y'all talk my shit early. I was just like, okay, you know cause we finna get along with it, she like it or not, yeah.

Speaker 6:

So how do y'all feel about polyamorous relationships? Is that something that you could see yourself in?

Speaker 7:

I can't be in that. I'm not sharing. I can't share. That's not my thing Like.

Speaker 6:

I can't, I don't care. So you and your man can't bring another bitch into the relationship. Hell, no, hell, no, hell, no. What if he was with it? What if he was with it? And the idea of bringing another man into the relationship.

Speaker 7:

No, that's gross, that's gross as hell. I'm not doing that Like ugh.

Speaker 6:

So you think that's gross too?

Speaker 7:

Too many, too many two boyfriends.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, one like that. That's gross. That wouldn't be something that interests you. I don't want to. Passion Jones just went viral for that. Actually, she posted a Thanksgiving photo with her two husbands and her three children between the both of them, so it's like one solid family unit. They actually have a podcast, all three of them together. It's called you poly ain't ready.

Speaker 7:

To eat your own, but it's not something that I'm going to be doing. If their relationship is sturdy, like if they're doing good, like you said, they got a podcast, they bring in money, they do what they do for their kids From the outside.

Speaker 6:

looking in it, it absolutely looks good.

Speaker 7:

And if that's really what it is, then more power to them. I support them in anything they do, but that's not something I'm interested in. I will never like, never, never never.

Speaker 6:

Is that something I'm asking you out there? Is that something? If she came home one day and she was like she had the idea of bringing bringing home this guy she thought was cute and she wanted to merge the relationship, would you be with that?

Speaker 7:

I wouldn't even think to do that, that's not crazy.

Speaker 6:

How would that? How would that? How would you respond to that? Would that be something that makes you just end everything?

Speaker 4:

You might as well just talk that it wouldn't be no relationship, it would just be talk.

Speaker 6:

Okay, I ain't doing that.

Speaker 7:

That's interesting.

Speaker 6:

That's interesting Cause I did that before I did the was the girl if she wanted to have a, met a girl for him. No, no, no, she asked you. A girl I was dealing with had a crush on somebody else so they'll be with him. But I was. I really liked that girl. So I kind of said, like I was, like I said what he said, like we could just talk, we could just have an open, like an open relationship kind of thing.

Speaker 7:

So you didn't care if he was digging around.

Speaker 6:

So that's kind of that's. That's how it started At first. Initially I was like. Initially I was like, yeah, we could, we could see how it works. But then, when she actually started fucking him, I was like, yeah, I can't do this.

Speaker 7:

I can't do no shit like that. You gotta stop. Yeah, that's, that's a lot.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, it was too much. I couldn't. I couldn't deal with it, so I had to, I had to cut it out.

Speaker 7:

Oh, you know, we didn't talk about, we talked about others relationships. We didn't talk about threesomes. Threesomes, that's a big one.

Speaker 6:

Would you give your man a threesome?

Speaker 2:

Yes.

Speaker 6:

So what's the difference between?

Speaker 5:

bringing a bitch home.

Speaker 6:

What's the difference between bringing a bitch home and letting him fuck her one time? What's the benefit of that versus bringing her home for good? And she could help pay bills, she could help clean, she could help cook, she could help alleviate the stress of both of y'all.

Speaker 7:

I don't even like sharing my man for real for real.

Speaker 5:

But you just said you was sharing Like a threesome like me and my man, I'm not gonna talk about it on camera for real. I'm gonna get excited when we talk about it.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, that for a fact, but with me and my man already discussed. I'm not gonna talk about it on public camera but, like, our idea of a threesome versus other people's idea of a threesome is not the same idea period.

Speaker 6:

You can't say that, yeah, that's what I'm about to get at, Like damn, you can't say that. And then now I'm like what's your idea of a threesome? My idea of a threesome?

Speaker 7:

What's your idea of a threesome? My idea, like he know what it is you can't look at her for too long. You can't do none of that. Like it is what it is, like you feel me If you look at her for too long.

Speaker 7:

it's one and done, Like he know all the real rules, like it's not nothing, no extra stuff, no, nothing Like one and done. Like five minutes. You're out of my house, sure he like don't even spend the night? No, I don't want to cut him or nothing. Like you're out, sure Damn I? Like girls too, like, feel me, I do my little one for like goodbye, that's it Like, and I can't accept your request right now.

Speaker 6:

What request? No, don't. Oh, okay, what about you? Have you ever had a threesome?

Speaker 7:

Uh-oh, first of all you.

Speaker 1:

That's why I didn't want to come on this show. Uh-oh, I didn't want to come on this show. All right, so Cause you ain't even asked her, nothing like that.

Speaker 7:

But I don't know. I gave him a warning. Have you ever had a threesome?

Speaker 1:

I don't know why. I just I ain't gonna lie. I gave him a warning.

Speaker 7:

I can't have no, no great ideas. Yeah, I had a threesome.

Speaker 6:

I've had a threesome with two guys and one girl, and I've had a threesome with two girls and just me. Oh, you mean a threesome?

Speaker 7:

So wait, was there more girls, or was just the boys?

Speaker 6:

Huh come again.

Speaker 7:

Never mind, don't listen to me, I don't know if we're just trying to have open, honest conversations. Yeah, we can.

Speaker 6:

I'm being open and honest. I'm being open and honest.

Speaker 7:

I'm saying was you just telling the truth Me Him, yeah, nah, I'm just Now. He was asking about the topic, oh, the topic of threesome. He don't want to talk about the topic of threesome. We can just move forward. Have you ever had a threesome? Yes, I have. And what was? I had one in my whole life.

Speaker 6:

What was the scenario? It was you, another female I think I'm doing it, ooh and a man.

Speaker 7:

It was me and my boyfriend. I gotta watch what I say because people beat in my business. They be trying to connect the dots. But it was me and my boyfriend, long term boyfriend, yeah, and y'all brought another girl in and into it, one of my old beaches.

Speaker 6:

Okay, now let me ask you a question. Let's say, let's ask another girl, yeah, let's say, cause this is something me and boss life have a disagreement about all the time. Let's say, you and your boyfriend brought Jonathan into this.

Speaker 7:

Who the fuck is, jonathan.

Speaker 6:

Just a random person.

Speaker 7:

No, I don't know. We not bringing no Jonathan, fuck Jonathan.

Speaker 6:

So you picked the name.

Speaker 7:

No, I don't want no boys. I don't want to sleep with two boys.

Speaker 6:

All right. So let's say, Kylie fucks Jonathan and Craig and she's fucking them both at the same time.

Speaker 7:

She's dirty Kylie, so Kylie is dirty bitch. Hold on, let me go back. Kylie is dirty as fuck. You dirty my faster than me. Kylie is fucking Jonathan and who.

Speaker 6:

And Craig at the same time. And those are two boys, two boys.

Speaker 7:

She's fucking them in the same minute. And at the same time, kylie's PA is fucked up. She's giving one head and Kylie needs to go to the doctor Is that a threesome or a training that's a smut bitch. It's a threesome. I'm not going to lie, it is a threesome.

Speaker 6:

It is a threesome, it's not a train, but Kylie is a smut and Kylie's.

Speaker 7:

PA's balance is pretty much not.

Speaker 6:

So what is a train?

Speaker 7:

Okay, a train. I think a train is like three people, but I think men refer to a threesome with two boys as a train, just because that's their terminology, and they always the twitch is down. We see that you gotta fix the twitch. But yeah, back to Kylie.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, kylie is a smut. Oh yeah, you were saying what's the difference between a train and a house? Oh, a train and a threesome.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, so boys are double standard. You feel me Like a threesome is a threesome. I don't know the Google definition of a threesome, but I'm pretty sure it's two people. Well, three people having sexual intercourse Like a train is like three guys, one girl or something like that. That I would say is a train. Like a threesome is a threesome. I don't know about that Four things. Buy some six of them. Those are trains for real. But yeah, that's how I feel about that.

Speaker 6:

So a threesome is everybody active at once. A train is like I'm in there with Shorty and my man is outside waiting. When I'm done I leave and he goes in.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, that's crazy, that's a train. That's a train, a three-sum.

Speaker 6:

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Speaker 7:

Speak to me Couple of topics I want to talk about. How do you feel on that 50-50 talk? Do you believe a relationship should be 50-50?

Speaker 6:

That's a great question, Ty. It's a great topic 50-50. I'm all for it. Yeah, I'm cool with 50-50. I'm all for women's rights and equal opportunity.

Speaker 4:

So women are pushing for equal opportunities.

Speaker 6:

I'm pushing for the same thing. If you guys want the responsibilities that we have, I'm more than willing to share them with you. So I'm cool with it being 50-50. I'm cool with my girl contributing. Sure, I would rather my girl contribute, especially in this day and age where women, I feel, are looking for a free ride. So I don't encourage that. I don't think that free ride will be with me, but, um, Do you feel like you're supposed to cater to your woman?

Speaker 6:

Yeah, definitely, you definitely should cater to your woman. I'm not saying, if you're in a relationship, you know, fuck that bitch, treat her like that. No, if you're in a relationship and your girl is a good girl, absolutely cater to her. If you have a great woman by your side, yeah, fuck 50-50. But if you have an average woman by your side, just a regular bitch doing regular shit, still worried about regular shit, yeah, I'm more for the 50-50. But great women are rare.

Speaker 7:

What do you think makes a great woman? Yeah, let's talk about that.

Speaker 6:

The ability to nurture, to be empathetic, a good mother figure. I think those are some things that factor into being a great woman. I think it's basically prioritized by the man. So you know, a man like me would love a woman that cooks, a woman that would take care of the home. Not necessarily clean, because I could do cleaning and stuff like that, but if you could take care of the home you know laundry and shit like that cooking if you're taking care of those responsibilities, then I could hold it down on the financial end. But if it's if I'm still eating Wendy's and I got a whole bitch at home, wendy's is crazy Then I expect for you to have $1,000 at the end of the month, right?

Speaker 7:

That's fair. I feel like that's fair. So fair, that's right. I feel like that's fair for real.

Speaker 6:

So fair, ask how you feel about 50-50. Do you want to be in a relationship where a nigga just takes care of you and you do nothing but post on IG and bullshit all day?

Speaker 7:

Well, if a nigga was taking care of me, that's not going to be what I was going to OK.

Speaker 6:

Great, that's what I want to hear. What would you be doing?

Speaker 7:

I don't want to say what he wanted me to, but I feel like it has asked me three questions. I probably did. I want to be on point, because the 50-50 thing beginning, and then roughly everybody's fair design I don't care, roughly anybody's fair design, I just want to be clear.

Speaker 6:

So, dude, I say Are you for 50-50s in relationships, yes or no?

Speaker 7:

Oh, I don't, I mean if you're young. I feel, like if you're young Because, like I said earlier, I'm 23. I don't think I'm young, but if I'm young I'll be just. But if I'm young, getting up there, so it's like in younger ages. 50-50 is cool, like if I'm young because you're building up with somebody. But I feel like if you're meeting somebody in an older age like I should at least be on a similar level.

Speaker 5:

I'm not saying I can't do 50-50 then, but the levels that you're on meeting that?

Speaker 7:

he should be able to sustain you and Himself yeah.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, honestly, as a grown-ass woman, he should be able to sustain you in himself.

Speaker 7:

I'm not saying a nigga has to sustain you, so it could be more like he brings you out to eat and stuff.

Speaker 5:

I'm not saying pay your bills.

Speaker 7:

As a grown-ass woman. I just feel like that answers the question. If you're grown as hell, if I'm grown like, if I'm 25 plus, I mean you want me to cook clean fucking and stuff that's not happening at all, Like for real, for real. And pay for your bills. I'm going to get you. No, that's not happening. I'm going to get you. That's not happening. Like you downstairs, I can't do all of that.

Speaker 4:

And getting back on whatever the case may be. But did I make sense? Did I make sense about what I'm saying? The older you get.

Speaker 7:

you can't keep on doing this old Because 50-50 means she's paying some of your bills and you're paying some of hers. That was my point. When you're getting older, that shit is not, you got to get your shit together by Talk about it.

Speaker 6:

She's cute.

Speaker 7:

But that shit is not cute when you're getting older. It's not, it's not cute.

Speaker 6:

So when you're older, you think that the man should be responsible for the financial status. Not responsible, but if he's in that state.

Speaker 7:

Everybody should be able to sustain himself, but I do think men should be able to sustain. Yeah, for women, you should definitely come with your own money, but for men, at the same time, if I have your kids and you want me to be a housewife, cook, clean, you want yours, laundry-forged and all that, I wouldn't have my child I shouldn't be able to do all of that. I should be able to sit home sometimes I agree with both of y'all.

Speaker 6:

If y'all are going to be, if your bitch can't stay home on nine months of her pregnancy.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, Like I don't give a fuck about that.

Speaker 5:

That's what I want to do On nine months, some bitches work when they pregnant.

Speaker 7:

That's cool. Mama, get your queen, I respect it.

Speaker 5:

But me personally.

Speaker 7:

I want to be comfortable with my feet up eating chips and gonioga.

Speaker 6:

And that's worthy.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, join the Twitch link for the podcast.

Speaker 5:

So if you can't do that and that's to stay in somebody else's life that hasn't even been there, let me pin them in.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, definitely that's to stay in somebody else's, so she can't be in that.

Speaker 6:

Let me see if I can squeeze by you Hold on.

Speaker 4:

Ain't a bad pinning. Go watch on the podcast. Stop watching mine.

Speaker 7:

Ain't a bad pinning. Ain't a bad pinning. Yes, finish it. Oh yeah, guys, I'm with my bitch girl. Hey y'all, I'm doing the podcast during the Twitch link. Ooh, ok, she had that filter on y'all, but you better not get caught, yeah.

Speaker 6:

What else do you want to fuck with? Yeah, I'll keep it going for like three minutes.

Speaker 1:

Not even a little. Have you ever dealt with a friend? Yeah, I have y'all on camera. How was it dealing with a broke nigga? There we go. Matter of fact, send him in I can't deal with a broke nigga.

Speaker 7:

I feel like dealing with a I don't know what. If you dealing with a broke nigga like I done it before, Honestly, all that Can't you deal with it.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, what's the struggle of dealing with a broken nigga? Because I already did.

Speaker 1:

That broke, nigga was extremely romantic. Was loyal loyalty. That's the good point.

Speaker 7:

I don't want to fuck with you.

Speaker 1:

I can't do it Because you know what a broke nigga do. You know what a broke nigga do, and a broke.

Speaker 7:

nigga, sit here and take you out of your character and all of you above make you spend your money on him. All of that Leave you with nothing.

Speaker 4:

when he's done, when he's up, that nigga's not going to think about you.

Speaker 7:

That nigga's not going to shit on you, that nigga will not think about you. Yeah, bitch, you're going in For real. Like that's how I strongly, I'm never going to mess with a bum, ever in my life. First of all, that wasn't the question. It was what was the struggles of dealing with a broke nigga? No, he asked me a different question on his way out. But the struggles of dealing with a broke nigga.

Speaker 4:

Like.

Speaker 7:

I said he's just going to drain you mentally, physically, financially, like you don't want to do it. And we're grown enough to have our own money. My nigga, like we are not. It is not hard to get a fucking job. We are the clothing brand Like it is not. Hey, baby, that's not. Sell low weed on the side, like I don't know, but some type of financial something, like you're not. I can't deal with no book, nigga, I'm sorry. Like I got my own money. Oh yeah, that's nothing. I'm too top tier of a bitch to mess with a book. Ok, so what'd you deal with a nigga injured? What I did with a nigga in jail Because that's technically a broken Well, not really. Honestly, you could be in jail and not be broke.

Speaker 4:

It depends In jail is a different. Most books, most niggas in jail be broke First of all if I'm in jail.

Speaker 7:

First of all, I wouldn't just off work started jail like jail relationship, like you and no.

Speaker 5:

I'm saying if you're a nigga, what if your boyfriend gets locked?

Speaker 7:

up. I'm holding him down. Ok, for how long Forever?

Speaker 1:

Oh shit, you can't even. You cannot make a no Forever.

Speaker 5:

I don't care, my boyfriend is not about to even go to jail, but you know, god forbid, oh, my soul, god forbid.

Speaker 7:

I'm holding my nigga down like to the ground. I don't give a fucking fucking fucking year.

Speaker 4:

I could see you doing a cool 13.

Speaker 5:

I'm doing a couple years.

Speaker 7:

I told him I have to be gay Like you have to allow me to fuck bitches while you're in jail. Hello, how you doing you got to allow me to.

Speaker 4:

And what did he say when you said that you got to allow me to?

Speaker 7:

How often?

Speaker 4:

do you think you was?

Speaker 7:

going to have to fuck a bitch. How often do you think you have to fuck a bitch if your nigga's in jail? Not a lot Like I don't Like.

Speaker 5:

it's a role you did those dog years for 13 years, I'm not fucking a bitch for 13 years.

Speaker 7:

But I don't care to have the dick because I like bitches more than I like niggas. Period. I'm just in love with my nigga, if that makes sense. But yeah, my nigga go to jail. I'm going to hold him down, period. Duce. I said some questions. What about you?

Speaker 4:

Oh, if your boyfriend went to jail, would you hold him down, and how?

Speaker 7:

long are you holding him down for? Until he pissed me off. I don't know, we got to be locked in the world, but I'm already locked in.

Speaker 5:

So, yeah, my boyfriend's not going to jail.

Speaker 7:

I'll break him out. That bitch, stop playing with me. My nigga's not going to jail. I'll crawl through the smallest crack in the fucking facility and get my nigga out. I will write my boyfriend every day. I don't even play. That Fuck is he talking about? Y'all? Don't hold him down. Niggas behind no walls, all right. Next question Let me think of some good shit. Ooh, let me listen to my magic ball. Y'all don't got no questions for us. Let me listen to my magic ball.

Speaker 4:

No, it's OK.

Speaker 7:

How do y'all feel about making the baby daddy pay child support? What? How do y'all feel about making the baby daddy pay child support? What? You want child support or something? Yeah, I want child support. How you feel? Damn, not a girl. Child support yourself. What? Bring me that up when I come in. All right, I got you Well me what about? Pre-nubs Talk about a pre-nub.

Speaker 5:

That's when you OK, Save that for us.

Speaker 2:

OK, the pre-nubs stop it. Isn't that when?

Speaker 7:

y'all get married and when y'all break up, everything's split in half. No, when you get a pre-nub, you can't get a shit, or like it's terms to it, Like some pre-nubs, if you cheat, that means you get money. It just depends on how invested you are in the relationship. I'm not. If I get married, I'm not signing a pre-nub because everything we build from the ground up is a foundation. Like we're just going to have to split that shit 50-50 when we leave and I don't know.

Speaker 4:

I think I'll be cool with that with my boyfriend, Because I got my own shit and he got his own shit, so it is pretty good, no, cap, I'm signing it the only way.

Speaker 7:

I'm signing a pre-nub if it's for a high profile motherfucker and I will sign it because at the end of the day, I'm not going to sit on my ass while I'm married to them. Yeah, so I'm not worried about what he got. It's cool to get 50-50. All that shit's fine, but I'm not planning on no divorce If I'm getting married, that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 5:

If I'm getting married Because marriage is serious. If I'm getting married, I'm not planning on no divorce.

Speaker 4:

And till death do us part nigga.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, and guess what? Death going to come before we part nigga. So it's real good, I swear. So death, do us part for real, for real. But yeah, I was sign up for you. Now, all right, next topic what would? Hmm, what's the worst shit you done? Broke up on all my lives jumping. What's the worst shit you done? Broke up by the naked. I broke up with somebody. Broke up like no. Broke up like like broke. Oh bro, I've been done too much. Like I'm a little crazy. I done. Did the acid on the clothes I bet you mean bleach. Oh yeah, the bleach on the clothes. Asked it for. I done like stab my focus, tires, all the cars and shit. Mm-hmm, I done. What else have I done? I'm trying to think Not that crazy, I Haven't done too much. I'm not really terrible. But like I will bully every girlfriend after me if I was in love with you.

Speaker 5:

No, I'm in some bully and some breaking it up in people's stuff.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, how crazy are you. Do y'all do that not?

Speaker 6:

not really everything For me, say none of this shit you did was whack.

Speaker 7:

why you saying what we do Y'all? I broke shit up before, so that means when I broke it up, I was why why did you?

Speaker 6:

so? Let's talk about it. Why did you?

Speaker 7:

break the shit up. So what instance you want on a scale of scale of one to ten? How broke up? Do you want the shit to be 15? Okay, so I did this thing. I can't say what I did. I did this. I did this thing because I had went up, I had some money to make with the niggas and I went upstairs or whatever. His baby mama had to stay in his house, whatever she was on some bum shit, cool. I already knew that. Mind you, me and the nigga don't really got no gold and so on. So for me it's really money make kind of thing, but I don't do shit to bitches. So, whatever the case may be, I was like, come on, let's go get this money. Come on, let's go get this money. Come on, let's go this money. He's in his drawers trying to be cupcake in with his baby mom. I'm like nigga, cuz you film me. It's both are. So is this a nigga?

Speaker 6:

you're fucking.

Speaker 7:

No, we didn't fuck, we just like.

Speaker 6:

We always like Whatever happened between y'all was was business.

Speaker 7:

You talking about broken up? We didn't have to be about no nigga. I just tell you, I break it up.

Speaker 6:

That's y'all have. I'm talking about niggas, you fucking okay, but you said 15.

Speaker 7:

That was the 15 one, Okay. So a nigga on fucking shit that I broke up. Why did he do that? I had a nigga in his mouth in front of his mama cuz he cheated on you. What? Hitting it in his mouth In front of his mama cuz he cheated on me and what?

Speaker 6:

what his mom do?

Speaker 7:

bring me home and asked me to stay with him. On my soul, on my child, she asked me to stay with him. She was a. She was already supposed to bring me home. He was sleeping when I found out who cheated on me again. So I was just trying to leave peacefully, but you put your hands on him cuz he cheated on you.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, oh.

Speaker 7:

Of course doesn't give an idea that before that, but I would say this on it was the second time he did it.

Speaker 5:

The first time I just walked away because I already I walked away the first time too many niggas.

Speaker 7:

You don't know what I did, so my true business. Anyways, they talk about I put my hand on folks. I don't do that, but anyways. So she was like I need some gas me cuz. I'm like, bring me home. Yeah, son Sweetie, yo, son sweetie. She's like I need some gas man. I'm like, okay, go get the gas money. She go get the gas money from him. She's like, oh, I'm pretty, yes, she home. I don't know what the fuck you did, sir, waking a nigga. That's where he fucked up at. He comes out like why you leaving? I'm like you texting that bitch again and yeah, then she bring me home. It was close this Into the neck. I Don't talk to nigga.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, it wasn't, it wasn't, it wasn't into the face. Nothing, though, I don't think this out. Make me a ponytail, yeah, yeah, but anyways, we're not gonna talk about that cuz I'm Change person. No, I'm not change, I'm just trying to be better. That's, you can't do shit, but be better and I need a slip. I'm not high, no more. That's the wire motor here talking about what I done, did to folks. I Re, I would, I. What's the car when you sure give people. I Read what's a call? Reflex in a boyfriend, a friend in a friend.

Speaker 1:

Anything all right, so let's start with friends.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, I don't like a bitch. That's always, always in her nigga face. Well, no, cuz I'm always in my nigga face, I can't say that that's the most you did this fuck I'm always in my nigga face ticket how you want to buy. I don't like a bitch if you have a friend that's been your friend for a long time like a very long time and her boyfriend comes around and she just it's kind of like I think I'm here's a lion Like.

Speaker 4:

If it's like a fuck you like. I don't appreciate that, because when that nigga when he cheated on you.

Speaker 7:

Who the fuck is about a Cry 2? Okay, like I don't like shit, like that. That's one of my red flies in females another red one.

Speaker 5:

Okay, go ahead, go ahead Go ahead.

Speaker 7:

My red flag in a female is Bitches that always talking about the next bitch, cuz, if she'll talk about the next bitch, she'll talk about you. That's true. But I do talk a lot right like Bitch. We don't talk about bitches, we talk about bitches, shenanigans, that's true. Yeah, that's true. I might have caught a couple who's ugly here in here, but like I never. This is real tight.

Speaker 6:

Feel about males fucking with medals.

Speaker 2:

Like gay.

Speaker 7:

Like a bisexual. Yeah, I can't do that. You like dick, go get dick I.

Speaker 5:

Can't. I'm like.

Speaker 4:

I whatever you want to do, but like I'm talking to be topic and that's what you like then do that, but you're not gonna do that with me.

Speaker 7:

You're not about to take dick up the button and try to know you gotta be. You gotta be political when you say it Cuz sorry, your preference is not a bisexual me, and that's how you gotta put it. Yeah, I'm not shooting nobody down, but like that's not what I'm doing. Why she fuck with a nigga? That fuck with niggas.

Speaker 2:

She think her niggas a little on that side why he go to jail a lot. He listen, I'm about to tell you he was in jail. He just came. He gave me like one hundred play with her butt Crazy over the phone still. So she's like kind of like yo, what do you think like?

Speaker 7:

I'm like I don't know, I never heard of that, but maybe that's just his new spicy thing. That's not weird?

Speaker 2:

get crazy over the phone.

Speaker 5:

That's like a bitch who like to resex novels, you know.

Speaker 7:

Do y'all think I got a question for you, d Volosia? If you still in here, d Volos, do you think a nigga who just came home from the Fezz or whatever that still like to get crazy on her phone? His bitch is gay. Oh, you gonna put that. Don't give me a guy that gives. He got a new, a new sexual fantasy that might turn me on.

Speaker 1:

If that's my nigga shit, I might be a workin that I'm like hold on.

Speaker 7:

But maybe that's not the reason why she think he gang what you think. I already said my piece about the phone thing, or phone thing eyes on the. Oh, never mind. Oh, the jail called the. Oh, that's what that means.

Speaker 6:

That's not sexy talk I mean like pretty much here but he's home.

Speaker 4:

Both.

Speaker 7:

He's different. Yeah, he's different. For that I Miss you. Oh hi, I feel about bodies. You think a girl is a whole cuz. She got a lot of bodies. Let's talk about it. That's how I feel like we're too grown, I feel like we're too grown to worry about bodies like females in males, like and and males. I like my boyfriend or a boy with a high body. I like my boy, a little experience like what I'm about to do with a boy that got two bodies. Like that's mad and experienced.

Speaker 5:

Like I Need? Oh, this is, this is the question, this is the question I'll be talking about where my dog's right.

Speaker 7:

So if you meet a bitch and she good to you, she loyal to you, all of that wild shit, you know, niggas, be one and I don't know what you want, but imagine she do that right, but she don't know how to fuck Right, wait wait wait to the furnace this way.

Speaker 5:

Wait, wait, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. You gotta hear the whole question.

Speaker 7:

She don't know how to fuck, and I'm not. I'm not saying she don't know how to bounce on dick, but she just be awkward, uncomfortable, moning, crazy, making ugly faces like she just don't know how to fuck. Would you teach her how to fuck or would you start cheating on her? I'm so much.

Speaker 2:

I don't know how to suck dick either anything sexual she's lame at.

Speaker 7:

But she loyal. Anything you want, cook clean all of that Okay, so tell her, so you, so you would be patient with her and teach her how to, how to do you write Before you cheat. Before you cheat, you are, you cheat.

Speaker 6:

Yes, I said she's a perfect.

Speaker 1:

You are really teacher. We could go, but being loyal.

Speaker 4:

That means you're not getting your not off. Perfect person would you cheat on?

Speaker 7:

you are not getting the guts right. Perfect for why you? Yeah, come on you over there either. That Chinese food didn't bring you nothing. Can I get a fortune roll? I just drove six hours in Canada, chill. Can I get a fortune cookie?

Speaker 6:

If she's really, if she's cooking, everything perfect, if she doing everything perfect, then yeah, that's something I'm gonna deal with.

Speaker 7:

So you will be able to say, babe, when we be fucking, you be making wild, crazy faces, relax.

Speaker 6:

Absolutely. We pop a child support? Yes, I do. How many?

Speaker 4:

I.

Speaker 2:

Know not, he get a real violent here like even doing how to you know how to ask a question bro.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, you know, I made a post on the page. I stopped selling birth certificates.

Speaker 2:

I'm not gonna lie never, saw. I'm serious, I stopped yeah.

Speaker 7:

I like it. So wait, how old are you guys? You?

Speaker 2:

got I.

Speaker 7:

Got enough. Is it like more than five? No, okay, you don't really got a lot of kids To me.

Speaker 2:

I got a mom yeah my mom got five.

Speaker 7:

Now she did her big one, my mom, I'm gonna hurt big one. What's that me a?

Speaker 2:

for oh.

Speaker 1:

Oh, somebody where, somebody tell you about who I went with.

Speaker 7:

Oh, I always want to come in one, go live, but I want somebody who had Five. Baby mom is in there, had a baby on me and she don't unknown identity, but that's his kid. That's. I won't like you all, that's his kid. But he got six. Baby mamas want to be the biggest seven.

Speaker 4:

I just Like she's not seven, but I'm missing my 17 kids and I should.

Speaker 6:

Feel like you're bored in question. So how many kids do you pay child support for?

Speaker 2:

one.

Speaker 6:

I said I great, do you Were you? Are you paying child support? Because she made you pay child support. She put you. She put you on child support, yeah. So how is your relationship with her now? Yeah, we're fine. And how long did it take to get to that point of being fine?

Speaker 7:

Wait, can I ask you a question? I'm sorry to cut you off Go ahead.

Speaker 6:

This is actually a question.

Speaker 7:

So like, so hot, so you got Not to be in your business, but you got four baby, what was right, I'm not into question. You got four baby, what was right? So like, how do you like, how do you dish out love to them? Like I'm not saying you got to be in a love relationship with all of them, but how do you like care to all of them? I'm not saying like in financially, I'm saying like how do you make them all feel like, cuz you got to have, I feel like for somebody to have it like be the mother, your child. You kind of got to make them be in a good mood so they could mom, right, you know, you know what I'm trying to say. Like how do you support them and like, make them feel all different, special, or you don't do?

Speaker 2:

that how I make them special. They come with me. They always feel special, like you be dating them. Still, I give my kids an experience every time they around me, so you teach your kids good to make them To whoa whoa, whoa, whoa. No, no, I'm just Because you, just you got for one was right cool.

Speaker 7:

Do you make them feel special?

Speaker 5:

Yeah.

Speaker 7:

I'm talking about a big money. I'm not talking about the kids.

Speaker 6:

How do you compensate the baby? Okay?

Speaker 7:

I'll say, like in a nigga term like how do you keep peace with all of them? Like what do you do to keep peace with all of them, cuz.

Speaker 5:

I know you got a card, I don't know how to be like good night or you look good or a good job, taking them to practice no no, I mean like yeah, when they go do something with my kid, of course they're like all that.

Speaker 2:

They look good in all that number Me and my beams are very cool. Like I said, we got a team. It's like we good, you know what I'm saying. I know basically how do I keep them, but like supportive of me, okay.

Speaker 7:

Nevermind, I was thinking. I was asking for myself more slowly, and for you maybe. How do you keep?

Speaker 6:

peace. I understand what you said. We would just talk. Let me say where.

Speaker 4:

We was just talking about no problems, we were just Sorry.

Speaker 7:

We were just talking about if I would be a BM to somebody with a kid's. Well, yeah, what a kid. Or with six kids, right, one kid? Or two kid, four kids, no, okay, whatever the case may be right chicken or six kids. You got four, you have one more kid.

Speaker 2:

That's why I my situation is a little different.

Speaker 7:

How you know, the girl situation is not gonna be a little different thing. Like you just said, you have. I'm not dealing with no chick, with no six kids, okay, but you got four. So so what is the difference?

Speaker 2:

you ain't got to deal with my situation.

Speaker 7:

Okay, that's respectable. I spent it.

Speaker 2:

I respect it my situation is my situation, your situation, your kid see, that's a difference. We're not your way to be, far as ours. Yeah, you're such a thank you, we use about why, though?

Speaker 7:

Why does it have to? Why can't he be?

Speaker 4:

a bit, that's like my kids.

Speaker 7:

You Right is them kids right? And what comes with you? He's not bringing his kids.

Speaker 4:

No, not, never. My kids come.

Speaker 7:

I don't I stop by the no, not like that. I just you know cuz it's. You are actually a father. I don't got no kids.

Speaker 5:

So I don't, I don't got no kids. Yeah, we both don't got.

Speaker 7:

That's why that's why, when I was I should our question, I was asking like per se I put myself is not the first baby mom? Right, I was according to her that.

Speaker 6:

Might be the only one that could fit, but according to her, according to her regimen of how she deals with individuals, she wouldn't deal with you because you have four kids and for no. That's not what I said. She said a deeper. He said a serious.

Speaker 2:

Serious, yeah, but like I've been the person that I was with the hat on autumn kids.

Speaker 7:

I was wait for three years. I dealt with him for three years. I stopped dealing with him because he passed away. I would have still been dealing with him, oh yeah. I loved him, I loved him, I really did but he wanted me to move in with him, he wanted me to have his kid. But I just couldn't take that stuff because I knew I couldn't be the best.

Speaker 6:

So, hypothetically, I rest the soul.

Speaker 7:

Let's say he was still here today and I had his kid, do you think?

Speaker 6:

that would. That would be the so. This is so I thought.

Speaker 7:

I was pregnant and I Wasn't gonna tell him, because I just don't want to deal with that, I don't know, I don't have like. I went through the thought process I took the pretty sex, I was a pregnant, so I didn't have to think about it no more. But I wasn't gonna tell him. I wasn't, cuz I know he wasn't not gonna, he wasn't gonna be distant.

Speaker 6:

Question ask me whatever was that your last pregnancy scare? That was my only pregnancy scare, oh, okay.

Speaker 2:

Nice. What's they gonna give us some? Um they call that shit boy but if control yeah they do got it, don't we got it. We got to get a like, a like nigga like me. We get approved for.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, let's talk about condom. Yeah, let's talk about it.

Speaker 5:

Let's talk about you sleeper.

Speaker 7:

Let's talk about not even that let's talk about niggas who get a girl pregnant. And the question want her to abort the baby. Let's talk about that.

Speaker 2:

I don't believe in that. That's wrong.

Speaker 6:

That's not gonna work for me. I'm gonna stand on that. That's wrong, you don't.

Speaker 7:

Even if you it was a one-night stand cool with abortion.

Speaker 2:

That's different.

Speaker 7:

That's a different one, I feel like if you don't believe in abortions, you shouldn't be having one-night stands raw. Yeah, not wrong, you should have used the condom. Yeah.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, you're welcome, especially if you don't believe in abortions and you have a one-night stand and you get her pregnant. You don't have no say in that, that's just. You know it's hard money. You could be a honey. You could tell her what's up Like. Listen, I'm not, you know. Like I mean that's father. Yeah, that go to do. I May not be the best father figure for for your child right now, considering the circumstances of how we met and what's going on between us, but that's all you could give is input. If she want to have that kid, it's up to her, but you need oh yeah, I just feel like.

Speaker 7:

But one thing I do want to talk about is the females that, like they asked the, they tell them the boyfriend or whatever, the nigga that fuck they pregnant and then the boy tell her that she don't want it and then she be a single mother. But she, like on Facebook company, mess your single mother and upset that she is in my like. At that point I can't. I feel like.

Speaker 2:

That's what I'm talking about, kind of like you, can't he already told you?

Speaker 7:

he already told you he didn't want to keep the baby. That's that, but that's double sided, for me too, cuz he already told you he didn't want to keep the baby. What you still wouldn't had it anyways. You knew what you was dealing with from the time you knew he wasn't gonna be active father. Now she put you on child support. I do feel like that's wrong, but then again that, like I said, that's double standard.

Speaker 6:

That's double standard, like I said. But then, again.

Speaker 4:

I feel like that's double standard, because you should have never put.

Speaker 6:

SP has kids. How many do you?

Speaker 2:

have as free.

Speaker 6:

All right, sp has a baby father. Do you have one or two?

Speaker 7:

Technically, one is deceased. Okay, I don't know if we count him, but I do have to.

Speaker 6:

Okay, he's just okay, you know how is co-parenting With your baby father right now? Because, from my understanding, are y'all together? No, we're not. So this is where things get tricky. So are you able to live your personal life? Are you able to have fun?

Speaker 2:

You know, it's so funny that you say this because what?

Speaker 7:

he told me was like and. I wasn't able to have fun.

Speaker 4:

I feel like you know, because when you're in a relationship, depending on what your head is, that you are going to, you know the delight around respect what they want.

Speaker 7:

You gonna include them in whatever you're doing, so your life might involve them. It's not like you know, saying you're not necessarily doing not thinking for yourself like oh, this is what I want you think of the two Mm-hmm, is that you?

Speaker 7:

turn from that hole because we're not together, shit. Let me tell y'all that he said to me he's like yo, I'm like cause after we talked, after we broke up, after a long time, you know, first thing I need to apologize to you cause you didn't fuck around. You left me and left me in your apartment and never came back. Eventually I realized you wasn't coming back. You know what I'm saying he's like, so you know you can treat the women like shit. They're gonna get to a point. They're like you wanna play games too, bitch, I could play. You forgot that. I got a control. I got this plug. The motherfucker him.

Speaker 5:

You play it ready. I push to start you know what's up.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I know what's up.

Speaker 6:

All right. So let me ask you something, cause I'm about to dissect this co-parent in relationship, but I think it's more challenging, you know, definitely coming from your perspective, cause you're single, but you still have your baby, father, in the picture, so I know you not getting dick down the way you want to.

Speaker 7:

Wait, what he just said Isn't that crazy.

Speaker 1:

He said you're not getting dick down cause you don't like your baby father in the picture the way I want to because he's still like kind of co-parenting is what he's saying. Exactly. So look, I'll be honest with you.

Speaker 7:

I so, like I said, I moved out, whatever. I left my apartment till he left.

Speaker 1:

I don't understand the question. It sounds so spicy. Look, I just missed. Yeah, what's the question? So we go all get under the same thing I heard the question.

Speaker 2:

She just started talking about something that nobody knows is going on, so what?

Speaker 7:

do you elaborate? She's on the same page. I definitely like to follow up, but let him say the question again, so she co-parents, all right.

Speaker 2:

I co-parent her baby.

Speaker 6:

father, I'm not gonna get in here, bro, her baby father. He asked him it. Ask him here, bro, ask him, ask him.

Speaker 1:

He's a $50 ape. I looked at him when he sold it to me like the shit.

Speaker 7:

better be Yo, not the shit.

Speaker 2:

better give me so high I'm gonna roll with stone thing Right here, like throw that over, look at him.

Speaker 7:

They amd those are actually.

Speaker 2:

Hold on, let me see that, let me see that, let me see that Yo it look good.

Speaker 7:

I ain't gonna hold you. It look good as fuck.

Speaker 4:

All right question. I wasn't getting taken out of it.

Speaker 2:

The question is bro why you think it is you. Next time you come here I'm gonna run my wheels. I ain't saying come to me when it is. I didn't say that we said that.

Speaker 1:

Did I say that? Is this already cut out?

Speaker 6:

I don't know, what you're talking about. I ain't been cool, cool, cool. Three, two, one roll. So my question for you, sp, you co-parent actively with your baby father Now, now, mm-hmm, I know that creates some type of a barricade in your personal life. I'm asking you straight out Are you getting dick down the way that you want to right now?

Speaker 2:

in life. It just got spicy Bro, not at all.

Speaker 4:

Why not? It just got spicy.

Speaker 7:

It has to do with, I mean, the person that I wanna get spicy with, you know, and their availability, but also like now that I'm co-parenting, you know this guy, he's around now to be with his son. He wasn't around for three years. My son's almost three years old, so it is difficult. Like he's still seeing shit. Like you know, I'm a woman, so he's still be trying to, like you know, kind of like we caress it, like try to be cariño.

Speaker 4:

So, which is like caring you, trying to feel that spot again and I'm like bro I look at him like you're not with it.

Speaker 7:

This is not it.

Speaker 1:

This ain't that. This is not that, yeah.

Speaker 2:

And I'm coming from where he's coming from.

Speaker 6:

now I'm coming from where he's coming from now.

Speaker 2:

He potentially.

Speaker 6:

Tony, he potentially sees a future with you and his kids in a united front. Is that something that's possible?

Speaker 7:

I don't, it's not possible and I don't think he sees that, Honestly, he can't. He probably just his whole thing is he wanna get on. He wanna you know a regular nigga dream. He wanna get on, get his son right, you know, and do whatever the fuck he wanna do. Yeah, and we bum heads on because everyone's driven by different things.

Speaker 6:

Now does he actively do whatever the fuck he wants to do right now? Yeah, so why does that hold you back?

Speaker 7:

I'm just more respectful. Like you know, I don't like to shit where I sleep, like, for instance, he now knows where I live, where he's just finding out where I live right now. And I was. The only reason is because I stopped talking to who I was talking to. Shit got hot. You know what I'm saying With that last shit. I ain't talking to nobody ever since then, so I'm like whatever.

Speaker 2:

Yo, my dick is, please lit you know, my dick is yo. This is why I say yo look as P got to be, always as P keeps to despite she has she has a I think it matters. She has a super authentic and she's straightforward. You have to be straightforward, so moving along, not even moving along.

Speaker 4:

We still here.

Speaker 6:

I'm still intrigued by the dynamic of this relationship.

Speaker 2:

I've been intrigued that he listens to the podcast and this is gonna be okay. I wouldn't fly with that, I'm not even gonna lie Well I mean, is this gonna be okay? I'm sure he's aware, but what is she saying that's wrong?

Speaker 6:

What is she?

Speaker 5:

saying that's wrong. Yeah, I agree with you. Like he's aware that.

Speaker 4:

I don't do what I want to. She did it. I don't want him so me.

Speaker 7:

this is what I just heard you say that he's back around, yeah.

Speaker 2:

And that you're respectful.

Speaker 5:

But you still have people that you're interested in.

Speaker 4:

That's what I just heard. Yeah, that's all I heard.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, you didn't even. He's my child brother. You happen to be so fortunate son.

Speaker 5:

You know you could have been wild and respectful and been a better person. That said, when he asked you if you'd be getting down you'd be like hell yeah, that would have been petty, you found me.

Speaker 2:

I've seen the situation before. I've seen the situation before and I just, I just never asked no questions about it. So now that I'm actually looking at the situation again, it's like yeah, I've always been one to ask questions I wouldn't be able to do that. Me personally, nah, bro, not at all, bro. When I came, home to.

Speaker 6:

so my situation, my situation, is a lot like how baby father is Independent myself. He came I don't know if he was, if he was coming home or whatever the situation is but he wasn't involved for three years.

Speaker 2:

Nah, it's not that, it's just, it's like me, I would, I would definitely, I would tap, I'd do this, I'd do this for that.

Speaker 1:

Nah you could.

Speaker 2:

I wouldn't, I wouldn't bow down like that. Just me personally, Knowing that my being single and like my son, cause you're going to start to it's like why- wouldn't you get that?

Speaker 6:

feeling, did he do a?

Speaker 2:

bed. You understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 4:

It's like, look I'm with my son.

Speaker 2:

I'm not being I'm not with him. No, because well, so look he was. It wasn't so, look, I think what was it last year?

Speaker 7:

So it's been a whole year.

Speaker 5:

I lived in this apartment by myself.

Speaker 7:

So now I'm going home too. So he was in his son's life up until you know. I never came back to my apartment because I wanted him to leave and he wasn't leaving, so I left.

Speaker 6:

Whoa, so you just disappeared.

Speaker 7:

I went and went to my family house. I just left my apartment alone With your kid.

Speaker 6:

I took my child and he just lost access.

Speaker 7:

So he stood in my apartment cause he wouldn't leave. So that's why I left. And then eventually he got the note like this bitch not coming back here to sleep for nothing, she don't need no in here. Lisa, you don't go back to the house, this is a year ago.

Speaker 4:

Yeah you gotta keep up A year ago.

Speaker 7:

You know, I left him. I left my apartment, so he would leave my apartment.

Speaker 6:

But he didn't.

Speaker 7:

He ended up leaving, you know eventually yeah eventually I was in coming back.

Speaker 2:

I'm just saying I've done that over and over again, Like I understand what she's coming from. It's like all right, it's your apartment, right.

Speaker 6:

I think y'all have to yeah.

Speaker 2:

I'm out, yeah, but Like I'll leave.

Speaker 6:

You know you are a person. The kid is different.

Speaker 2:

Me personally, I'll leave to avoid headache, because I know me and at least, when I leave, I know I'm leaving you in a great position, because I'm leaving my house, my house. Yeah, yeah, yeah, facts, let's get this right.

Speaker 6:

I feel you, this is my house, I feel you.

Speaker 2:

You understand what I'm saying, so like I'll just leave my situation and then like boom, at least you got bed TV cable and I'll go get another situation and I'm not, and everybody want to know why you got to be your partner.

Speaker 6:

Not everybody's in a position to do those things. That's why. I said mind you don't really count. Yeah, you don't really count because we talking about.

Speaker 7:

You know a lot of people are in relationships because they're not in position Exactly. Do you know that Like and do you tell your?

Speaker 2:

significant other. Like the real, like I don't like. Do you lie to your significant other, Like, do you tell them how you really feel or do you hold back because you love them?

Speaker 1:

No, I'm straight up. Now, the clotation mark is straight up. I'm straight up.

Speaker 5:

This is why because guess what?

Speaker 2:

I don't like the way your feet was looking the other day. You shouldn't wear your feet like that, just that. How do you wear feet? Oh, I tell them my rip. No, he just saying like anything. No, like anything that bothers me.

Speaker 7:

No, for real even if they look crazy like you look crazy. Take that off.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, like yeah, like anything that if I'm not feeling like you come out and you don't wear that like I'm gonna be straight up with you.

Speaker 4:

That's how I mean. My boyfriend Sugar coach. I'm not gonna say I'm being yo where you going.

Speaker 5:

That's how I mean it, and if you don't get, that right there.

Speaker 2:

From there it's like all right, cool, no problem, you didn't get what I said. That means you don't keep up. If I go over your head every time I speak to you, I don't wanna deal with you.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, Call me what you want.

Speaker 2:

I got.

Speaker 7:

So you do that in all aspects of communicating what you're showing me.

Speaker 2:

Wait, I do that in all aspects of life. I'm a businessman.

Speaker 7:

I say you like Shroudy and she do something that rubs you on. Where you're able to express that to her?

Speaker 4:

No, I'm not even talking about some.

Speaker 2:

No, no, no, no, no, no, no. But I'm dealing with. Let me tell you what I'm. Because you talk about when you just started, because when you just positioned that, you basically just started talking to a female the way you just said that, how you saying it again, what you saying.

Speaker 2:

I forgot, because you said if you fucking with Shroudy If you really like her and I. That means you're getting to know her. That's the beginning stages. Okay, so I'm not gonna say nothing. I'm gonna watch and see if you do that. I'm even gonna test you and see if you do whatever it is that you do over and over again to where I'm by right. Look, I seen you do this like four times. I don't like it. I don't know. You know what I'm saying, like and before, before you see that I don't like it, am I?

Speaker 7:

I rather you. You don't think that creates resentment, I rather me say it than you.

Speaker 2:

You get it in my body language or you get it in my attitude.

Speaker 7:

But that's after four times. So that's what I'm saying. You don't think that creates resentment? What Like just watching them repeat Powering?

Speaker 1:

letting it come up.

Speaker 7:

Like, okay, she did it four times. Now I'm gonna say something.

Speaker 2:

I wanna make sure that's what you're doing.

Speaker 7:

Oh, that's your way of thinking. No, that's just the way that, but that's just. I feel like that's the way you think about it. I wanna make sure that's what you're doing.

Speaker 2:

So it's like all right, cool, like it's like being in the crib and you got a visitor right Now. I was something. I go to my my downstairs bathroom is pissed on my toilet seat, you know.

Speaker 5:

So now what I'm gonna do.

Speaker 2:

I'm gonna tell my kids you look don't use that bathroom. So now, when I go down there and I see it's pissed on the toilet seat, I'm gonna say to you yo bro, you pissed on the toilet seat. You don't know that.

Speaker 6:

You don't see, you don't know that Now you can confirm the behavior.

Speaker 1:

Now I can confirm exactly, bro, I'm not, I'm big.

Speaker 2:

I'm the type of person.

Speaker 6:

You just take a no bullshit approach Patterns.

Speaker 7:

But yeah, that's you Like other people she said it could create resentment, like that's why some people don't do that. No, you can't, Because, like you trying to, you created a trap to catch the bitch and stuff but like some people would do this Like what the fuck.

Speaker 2:

Like that's it. Tell her shit, you just take it. You ever approach somebody about something that you know that they doing.

Speaker 7:

I don't have a position on this. I was just trying to listen to how you feel as a man, have you?

Speaker 2:

ever did that before.

Speaker 7:

Like you approach somebody on something that you did Not even a trap.

Speaker 2:

No, I just wanna make sure that that's what you doing, that's it.

Speaker 4:

That's all I ask for the trap.

Speaker 2:

I wanna make sure that that's what you're doing. That's it. That's not a trap, cause if that's not what?

Speaker 5:

you doing it if it wasn't you.

Speaker 2:

it wasn't you.

Speaker 7:

I'm gonna find the next person, but you a person that said that you could handle it. I'm a gymnast. You said you could handle it four times Other people good.

Speaker 2:

Like she was saying no, no, no, no, no no, no, but that's what you just said.

Speaker 5:

But that's what you just said. I didn't say I didn't handle it, that's what you said.

Speaker 2:

You said you let it go four times. I didn't repeat what I was saying before. I wanna see it. I wanna make sure that that's what's happening. That's what.

Speaker 5:

I'm saying that's what you just said, right?

Speaker 7:

So say it's not pit on a toilet seat. Say every time she go to grab weed from the plug, she got a little shirt on. You gonna let her do that four times.

Speaker 2:

No, so you're gonna say it the first time, no.

Speaker 1:

She's doing the exact situation to bring up. She's doing the exact situation to bring up.

Speaker 6:

And he said, no, that's only gonna happen once.

Speaker 1:

Cause after she do it the first time, I'm gonna address the bitch. Wait, let me hear it, let me hear it.

Speaker 2:

So what type of female am I with, like if that's what you wore when I met you and that's what you was doing and that's how I'm looking at you, yeah, I have no problem with that. You understand what I'm saying. I'm not an insecure man at all, far from insecure. Okay, so that's just the main one insecurities Cause, if my woman is wearing something and she's with me, she's wearing it for me. Look at that.

Speaker 4:

You understand what I'm saying when I get the onlookers.

Speaker 2:

It's like I cool. Thank you.

Speaker 7:

I got to understand it's the on, but there's certain bitches that do shit on purpose for attention.

Speaker 5:

I know it's definitely what?

Speaker 7:

which bitches, which bitches. That's what I'm saying, I'm agreeing with you, yeah, of course.

Speaker 4:

Of course, but I'm gonna like it's too crazy for bitches out here.

Speaker 2:

It depends on what type of chick you with bro. Some people like if I'm with this ratchet she ain't cool. I know this bitch ratchet. She's going to some ratchet shit.

Speaker 7:

She just going outside, how she did it?

Speaker 2:

She gonna come, she gonna pull up, how she pull up, and then she probably gonna go up on the fucking Bying it to the side.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, you feel me Like.

Speaker 2:

It is what it is, I don't care, that's my hood joint. Now. Now, if I go pick up somebody that's you're prestigious bitch.

Speaker 1:

Exactly hold on.

Speaker 2:

I'm checking my shirt. She just put a boy shirt to it. You are like hold up. Now I gotta put my shirt up. She's acting the baddest for someone else, now we got to know what's like.

Speaker 7:

So the first time she do it, the first when she come inside from doing it, the first time, you're gonna be like bitch, what was good, what's up with you Since?

Speaker 2:

when you started doing that. About that Immediately. I'm a nipper than a hood type of dude. Anywhere in the streets, jail, anywhere I never write up. But don't stop my shoe, bro. Don't do that. You're stopping my shoes.

Speaker 7:

I thought you really did just now. I was doing that. I was about to say why are you being me?

Speaker 2:

Because I want you to be aware, I want you to be aware that I'm telling you not to do that again. I ain't doing it, so I'm gonna give you a little bit of force. So you know like, oh shit, I'm gonna tell my son yeah he's serious, he's serious. You gonna say what I'm saying. So the next time you do it and I push you like, oh bro, what's up?

Speaker 6:

You know what's up. You know what to expect.

Speaker 2:

You create boundaries early, immediately, it's called nipping it in the butt.

Speaker 7:

Have a guy or a girl tell you that they could be their stuff with you. But you know they have other people in their lives and the uh, you know what they like to have that facade.

Speaker 5:

They like that people that treat them, and then they tell you I could be myself with you.

Speaker 7:

And then you got to have like a whole, like alias account and they're like I love being on this account because I feel like I could be myself and you know what kind of weird shit like what you mean bro?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, that's weird.

Speaker 7:

That's weird to me, honestly. If I could build a perfect nigga, he wouldn't have social media. He'd be a trench nigga with that hated, that had a fucking angel in it.

Speaker 2:

He doesn't take the nigga you got man, I got it.

Speaker 7:

Oh shit, I love them, something I swore.

Speaker 2:

But what is social media?

Speaker 6:

I wouldn't give a fuck if my bitch had only family Social media has to look at bitches all day.

Speaker 7:

I'm not saying that's a good thing, bad thing, but that's the fact. So I have, I'm a female and I look at bitches all day Me too.

Speaker 5:

Exactly that's what social media is, unless it's somebody who family follows only specifically family.

Speaker 7:

Going in search right now, if I go down my score.

Speaker 2:

It's going to be straight bitches. Why am I so?

Speaker 7:

I promise you it's going to be five bitches in a row. I'll tell you everything. Look up A bitch.

Speaker 4:

No, I didn't say that I didn't say it's not mine Go to your explore page.

Speaker 2:

Go to your search. Yeah, that's what you look up all day what Go to the top? Go all the way to the top, Whatever's there that's what you look at All day here. I see here Doing here.

Speaker 7:

Okay, so why are there bitches on your timeline?

Speaker 2:

I'm going to show you right now.

Speaker 7:

This is how this goes, because he's just proving my point. I'm looking at my shit, bro. I'm going to show you something right there. I'm going to show you mine and that's how I like to keep my relationship Dogs.

Speaker 2:

You understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 7:

You see the difference? Okay, that's cool, you must have been. You came here prepared.

Speaker 1:

Do you see what I'm doing? He was looking at dogs form-warning. Yeah, he was looking at dogs form-warning. Stop playing with me.

Speaker 6:

Oh shit, look what they done to Josh Gitty nigga.

Speaker 7:

Darkelly.

Speaker 6:

Nah, you're calm alone.

Speaker 7:

You know the story, but I'm calm alone.

Speaker 2:

But that's just to show you you understand what I'm saying, what your people's is looking at. I'm looking at, but I just Look. You'll see jewelry soups.

Speaker 7:

And animals.

Speaker 2:

He could get a Pinterest.

Speaker 5:

He can watch that he could get a Pinterest Lashes alpha inspo here.

Speaker 2:

You understand what I'm saying, like. So it's like, if you really want to know what I'm up for, look at that. That's what I'm up for, look at that. So I'm on my phone and I'm on my Instagram. Don't bother me, because if you doing this, I'm making for a soup at work.

Speaker 7:

Look at my shit. Yeah, I'm very open on my phone. That probably.

Speaker 2:

I'm not, that could be like, because you know what I am not.

Speaker 1:

That's not even true, that's not even true, it's like yo look.

Speaker 5:

If you won't hurt yourself yet I'll do you.

Speaker 6:

My shit is secure. You coming out yourself. What is your sign? I don't care.

Speaker 7:

I be like my boyfriend got my password, I don't care.

Speaker 6:

You need passcode for everything.

Speaker 7:

No my shit is open If.

Speaker 2:

I tell my, if I tell anything I do over here, let me see, I don't want to see.

Speaker 6:

I don't want that, though I don't want to see.

Speaker 2:

That's all I would say. Every nigga I've been with went through my phone. I would never go through my phone. A lot of boys say that no, that's something a lot of boys that I know have said Like I wouldn't want to even do that, like no, Any man that wants to go through somebody's phone, he's insecure, he's insecure. I went through a phone and broke my heart. I'll never do it again.

Speaker 6:

Like that's just that. Was it a baby mother's phone that you went through? No, that's personal.

Speaker 2:

It broke his heart, man it just.

Speaker 6:

It's normally a.

Speaker 2:

It takes a baby mother. But it wasn't. It wasn't Not necessarily I broke his heart, I broke him right now and he's not my baby father.

Speaker 5:

I mean it could have been.

Speaker 1:

I think the plan B?

Speaker 7:

I don't know I pay you, I don't. But, if I'm not on the party.

Speaker 2:

You can't do that with me.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, you can't trust the phone either, though, because this guy literally no, no, no.

Speaker 4:

He had it when his phone was about to get checked.

Speaker 7:

And he got the Dropbox account with alphabetical order. He got true Dropbox account of all the girls' names, like every Sam his screenshot. Now it's just like going away.

Speaker 2:

I respect it though. But like wow bro, if you're going through a phone.

Speaker 6:

Wow, like I said, there's two places you gotta go to see what's really going on. I think they got the flame out there. Social media you gotta go. Social media, my new shit is Cash.

Speaker 2:

App.

Speaker 7:

Cash App. Yeah, because you can't delete Cash App. I found some shit on Cash App.

Speaker 6:

What are you finding out on Cash App? What do people know?

Speaker 7:

You want to find out who your niggas like and who the fuck he fuck would?

Speaker 5:

see that Cash App See who had sent that number in the Cash App.

Speaker 7:

Not even type the number Go through the payment and see you can see how much money they sent them. Go to Cash App right now. That's what.

Speaker 6:

I'm saying If you go through my Cash, App.

Speaker 1:

You're not going to see me sending those shorty money Show me.

Speaker 7:

Hold on, let me find one of your bitches real fast for you.

Speaker 2:

You.

Speaker 7:

Yo.

Speaker 2:

See.

Speaker 7:

I gotta see this yeah, I wanna see it.

Speaker 2:

I gotta see it.

Speaker 7:

Is that one of your bitches? No, it's a play.

Speaker 2:

Oh even though it's Dale, I'm not really looking but you see, this is what I be doing.

Speaker 7:

I be going through here and looking for the profiles and then when I see a bitch, I click on a bitch profile, tell you her name, all of that and how much money was sent to her or received, or she sent to him. That is a bum. But yeah, that's my new shit. I've been called out on that, I do a lot on Cash App.

Speaker 2:

I do a lot on Cash App. People be dumb.

Speaker 7:

They be putting notes for your nails or be. Come on out.

Speaker 5:

Come on out, come on out Come on out, we're not talking about. I'm younger, we're not talking about no older niggas?

Speaker 1:

No, that's small.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, or for food bay.

Speaker 1:

Like come on out for shoes bay All of that. They be talking crazy on Cash App. So all the bitches. If you talk about a baby for that, good ass pussy.

Speaker 7:

Last night that would be real fun honey for that good ass pussy. Stop, you're making me act up on his lines.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I ain't mad at that. You gotta pay the toll to me.

Speaker 6:

Nah, but that's some, that's some. I don't just get some games for all the bitches if y'all y'all trying to catch your niggas. What are the niggas?

Speaker 7:

Because the niggas, the bitches be getting burnt on Cash App too. Yeah, bro, if you want niggas, go through your bitch Cash App. Well, I'm sorry to get y'all hoes caught up, but y'all shouldn't have been doing that. Yeah, yeah you caught up.

Speaker 6:

That's the point of this is for us. So look, if you go through my shit, I'm not, I don't care.

Speaker 1:

You never, you never, you never, you never find no girls. I'm not gonna find. No girls You're not gonna find no information on my Cash App.

Speaker 2:

But still, if you ain't gonna catch me lagging, I'm not a lagging type of dude.

Speaker 7:

And that's because Gary was the proud cheater, and that's because Gary was the proud cheater. Y'all heard that the proud cheater.

Speaker 2:

I don't cheat. I don't have to cheat Black men don't cheat, I don't wanna cheat in general. What?

Speaker 1:

I don't think he is.

Speaker 7:

I don't think he is here go him, Like you heard him. Like what Black men just don't cheat, black men cheat.

Speaker 6:

You know what I?

Speaker 2:

used to think. You don't have a like. Once again, once again. You don't wanna know what I used to think.

Speaker 6:

I'm gonna say this one more time. I'm so sorry, I'm not real about it.

Speaker 5:

I'm not.

Speaker 2:

They cheated real. I'm not manalgamist, oh my gosh.

Speaker 7:

Understand. What else are you gonna tell us next? They?

Speaker 4:

probably are.

Speaker 7:

Men alone are non-managamist. They're not managamist.

Speaker 6:

Are women managamists.

Speaker 2:

I mean not all, it depends so managami is what?

Speaker 7:

How do you determine? So you're talking about? It can be determined between women. So how do you determine a four minutes, a monogamous type or not, like what makes a woman be non-monogamous? I'm an onus.

Speaker 2:

Since all men, Marriage is a first of all. Marriage was a trade in a business deal to begin with. We're not even long, If we were to sort that out again Monogamous doesn't have to do anything with marriage.

Speaker 7:

I didn't think. I thought that meant that you have one solo, alone partner. That's what monogamy means.

Speaker 5:

It's one in one but they tied you One in one.

Speaker 7:

Hey, sam, I can't wait to be right.

Speaker 5:

Is that what this is about to turn into?

Speaker 7:

Monogamous. I thought he was an air. He's like my brother Involving marriage to one person at a time. Oh, okay, high five. You don't want to give me no high five.

Speaker 2:

I can't say when you're right or wrong, I can't fight. You knew that already, right, you knew that right. You've been 100% on the Google, bro, because I deal with facts.

Speaker 6:

I don't deal with bullshit, you've been 100% on the Google facts.

Speaker 2:

I deal with facts, I don't deal with bullshit. It's like I'm too grown to deal with bullshit. I'm too grown, a lot of you I'm. First off, I'm good. I got my own car, my own crib, my own, this my own. I don't need nobody for nothing. Maybe First off you feel me so like when you don't need nobody and you don't have to tune in, or oh, y'all need your assistance here, or I gotta get a shorty because Brian is a 20 ton post kind of court. He's with a layup. You're a dude. I don't have those issues. Tom, you understand what I'm saying. It's like. It's like where's your growth when you grow? Are you growing as you're aging? Are you growing? Are you getting younger? Because people be thinking that bills don't matter and you understand what I'm saying. It just be weird to me. So I'm not gonna lie to no female. I'm not gonna lie to you and say oh yo, I didn't look at her ass Like, just like you ain't. Just look at that light skinning. That just won't buy me.

Speaker 7:

But like we can look together about ass, I don't care about my boyfriend looking at no ass.

Speaker 2:

This is what I'm. That's the type of women that I wanted that I deal with. I don't deal with women that have a problem with me saying yo look, she has nice eyebrows, she's as anxious as fire. Her feet is beautiful.

Speaker 7:

You understand what I'm saying Because I want to be able to hang around my shoulder as if I'm chilling with one of my men, yeah, we can say that you understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

I can't chill with you. Why don't I fuck with you? And I don't want to fuck with you.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, I'm gonna say it, because it defeats the whole purpose of me even being with you, Like what's your purpose?

Speaker 4:

I could go chill with anybody If that's the case.

Speaker 2:

Like I'm not. I'm not. No, you know I could get in the crowd and then you understand what I'm saying. I want the same type of time.

Speaker 7:

Same. That's how we are?

Speaker 2:

I ain't matter. That's just old in your personality, do you?

Speaker 6:

have because we got to start wrapping it up. Do you have anything specific that you want to speak on or address or let the people know for episode 89?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, man tap it, man Gas. God underscore TNBD man.

Speaker 6:

All right, so y'all make sure y'all tune in.

Speaker 7:

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Speaker 6:

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Speaker 7:

Yep Alina Love Swazi.

Speaker 6:

Guy showcase.

Speaker 7:

She's my artist, I'm a manager and I'm also a event host, event promoter, out here at CT. So if y'all want to know the spots, y'all hit me up. I'm throwing a party for New Years, 21 plus definitely 21 plus 21 plus New Years party.

Speaker 6:

Yeah and yeah, y'all tap in man. This was an incredible episode.

Speaker 7:

Yes, we gotta have us come back.

Speaker 2:

I like it? Oh yeah, absolutely I like your energy. That's the best part.

Speaker 7:

Yeah, we need some more topics, so we can get down on the road.

Speaker 1:

She got a podcast. She got a whole podcast.

Speaker 2:

I came that late man, me and Dave we were talking about this. You better invite me Find me.

Speaker 4:

Cause I'm gonna talk my shit, you gotta do another one.

Speaker 5:

Here's a report. Good afternoon, good evening, let's go online. Report in Gator Radio Alay and we bring you your daily report For all Spanish here in Conerico and for all those who don't watch Puerto Rico or Santo Domingo or any other part of the world that you don't watch, since we have a small news segment of what's happening around the world that hasn't been on yet From the media, or the news, or the YouTube or the media on the internet. Well, we bring it here, you can sign here and we bring all our, so that more people don't have access to our social media or our scar Tem. So exclusivity. Now, tell us, can you watch it through the media? Well, every day, we bring you a segment of news from our community.

Speaker 5:

As I said, esperanza, you want to say something so well, vuelvo con mi reporte del diario del Estaba algo muy interesante que sucedió de lo que le estaba diciendo, de lo que pasó en Santo Domingo con la avaguada que hubo, que destrozó muchas personas, muchas casas, y dejó a muchas personas en casas, y muchas personas perdieron también sus familiares queridos. Pues, algo que me impactó mucho, que me llamó mucho la atención y me agrada, es que yo estaba ofreciendo, o sea problemas psicológicos para aquellas personas, ayudas gratuitas para esas personas que necesitan pasar sobre este dolor, que han pasado de pérdida de su familia y también de pérdida de sus hogares y de muchas cosas valiosas, para ello Y yo la estén ofreciendo completamente gratis para las familiares y están ubicados en la República Colombia, en Callarantinas en el 2014, si no me equivoco, en los parados en Arroyondos perdón, en Arroyondo, es totalmente gratis. Y también otra cosa que me agradó mucho también. Bueno, ahora le voy a traer una pequeña noticia que me agrado mucho de Puerto Rico.

Speaker 5:

Es algo que la energía de Estados Unidos, la energía eléctrica de Estados Unidos, ofreció y otorgó 440 millones de dólares para trabajar en el panel, en el panel solar, para las personas que son de casas, dueños de casas, que son de bajo recurso. Eso es muy interesante y me llamó mucho la atención. Y, aparte de eso, como estaba diciendo la secretaria de energía, jennifer Granho dijo como ya viajado más de seis veces por un año a Puerto Rico. Afirma que el 400 millones van a ser distribuidos a tres compañías que están para lo mismo de panel solar Y los otros 40 van a ser distribuidos en cinco organizaciones de bajo recurso. Y el cual de esto, 40 mil personas, o sea cada 10000 personas. Hong Kong están ya alineados para ello ofrecerle este servicio inmediato a las personas que más necesiten, que son como las personas que necesitan diálisis o las personas que son deshabilitados y que la luz tiene mucho problema con la luz y la energía, pues ya hay 40 mil personas elegida inmediatamente para encalarle el sistema de panel solar.

Speaker 5:

Se espera que en los cinco países, incluyendo Puerto Rico, uno de los primeros que van a poner los paneles solar, y eso es muy interesante porque muchas personas que necesitan, que tienen estrago con la luz y el sistema eléctrico, van a tener la facilidad de tener el panel solar para las personas que más necesitan, como le dije anterior, las personas que necesitan diálisis, que necesitan constantemente la electricidad, la energía para sus medios de salud Y, bueno, otra cosa muy importante que se pueden, hablando de otras cosas, algo muy importante que quiero que por este medio también muchas personas, muchos hispanos que pueden recomendar, pueden escribirlo por este medio y darle like para que muchas otras personas puedan ver el programa. Y por este medio también pueden, si tienen algo que una valvería, o si tienen una comida, o si venden perfume, o si quieren que le, o si arreglan uñas, algo que nos guste a los hispanos. Pues por este medio. Te lo podemos publicar, simplemente no dejas en mi página, y pues ahí lo podemos ayudar. Pues, muchas gracias por todo. Esto, es todo, y tiene algo que decir esperanza, buenas noches.

Speaker 5:

We are also providing psychiatric care for those who have to now endure the trauma that is reality you know that it can be.

Speaker 7:

Life can be very traumatic, and you know.

Speaker 5:

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Speaker 7:

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Speaker 6:

Also, you guys be sure to tune in. We got a new show coming alive from the gutter radio. It's going to be called the MEG show. It's going to be based off of love and relationships and also men's mental health. That's his very interesting. I met her today and she has some interest in powers. She could really. She has some psychiatric abilities and, yeah, she's really into the tarot card readings and the. That's nice. It's other stuff. She told me exactly divinations. She's big on divinations.

Speaker 6:

Yeah, so all of that you know. She also does readings somewhere in I believe it's in Southampton, but I'm going to give you guys more exact details. But if you look on our post, there's going to be a post with her tag. Her name is Emmy Giselle. She's also a model and she's going to be talking a lot about health and love and relationships and mental health and things of that nature. So, yeah, so, yeah. So put a tune in y'all subscribe. And yeah, we going up live from the gutter radio episode eight we out Go.

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